Your Desire Shall Be For Your Husband, He Shall Rule Over Thee

First, to let you know, I am a feminist, but an original feminist not a modern feminist. Modern feminism is toxic and entitled, modelled after the worst of patriarchy as though that were something to aspire to. It seeks power and to subjugate those who disagree, male or female. I accepted this until coming to see the toxicity of female power.

Original feminism was about self determination, everyone has the right to decide for themselves and then has the ability to pursue that. Anyone can be president or CEO or housewife and all choices are respected and supported. I believe most women, given the opportunity, would choose housewife and nurturing roles but they aren't respected as they should so pursue different courses.

I am firmly against racism, the only biological difference in humans is the Y chromosome. It is tribalism and unfortunate that traditionalism is too often thought of as overlapping with racism. Support white nationalism, Nazism, white supremacy, and/or fascism, we do not agree.

I am a liberal, not "conservative" as traditional gender roles are often assumed to be. Traditional Gender Roles means responsibility for those under us and for those around us, not atomization (the end goal of Libertarianism). That requires a strong social safety net, access to education and healthcare, support for daycare, and such. Part of why I am posting this is because so many feminists long for traditional gender roles but cannot rectify them with their political views, a proper understanding of both makes them easily fit.

Proper patriarchy is benevolent patriarchy, taking responsibility for rather than exploiting for personal gain. It means looking at the entire picture and makin the best decision for everyone. It means listening to her and taking her view into account, putting others first.

I support domestic discipline. It establishes and maintains the proper order in the home but she never be confused with abuse. Discipline is about correction and growth of the recipient. Abuse is about control and manipulation for personal wants. As such, I am very much against abuse and domestic violence.

Relationships function better when one person has the final say, the ultimate responsibility for the decisions. When 2 people are perfectly equal you would end up in a lot of 1-1 deadlocks with no way to break the tie. Having seen females act when given this power, I recognize how toxic female power in the male-female dynamic is. The male should, if taking his role and responsibility seriously, should be in charge but lead with love and kindness.

Liberal-feminists girls, you don't need to abandon your views to incorporate your desires to submit. I am here to back you up.